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Ladies, men are playing you and many of you don’t even know. You have no clue and I can not continue to sit around and watch many of you walk around with your head in the clouds, while you look like a fool.
Let me be clear, all men are not trying to run game, however, there are some who are. Here are a couple of things that men do that you need to be aware of, so you don’t end up with a wet ass and hurt feelings.
1) Using money to get you to think he’s a great catch- Women like men with money. But money has nothing to do with his character and just because he has money, that doesn’t mean he’s going to give it to you. Some men with money have a phone book full of women and are the biggest dogs in the world. But they get you to join their roster because you are blinded by the dollar signs. The same thing is true if he is handsome, famous or something else that gets you to think that he’s a wonderful man, even when he’s not.
2) Testing your sexual boundaries – Men try to test women to see what they can get away with. If you offer him sex on the first date or with no strings attached, he’ll gladly take it. So, don’t get mad when it seems that your celibate girlfriend always gets the man who you slept with after the three date rule. You can have sex with men, but you shouldn’t think that giving it up easy and early is the way to keep him around. It might be the way to lose him.
3) You believe everything he says – If he tells you that the girl he’s cheating on is a horrible woman and that you are the exception to the rule, then you deserve whatever you get from him. You’re not the exception to the rule, you are just the next person he’s given that story to. You can trust your man, but make him earn your trust. Don’t become that woman who believes everything a lying dog has to say. It only makes you look silly to your friends.
4) Selling you a dream – one man I know who gets around with a lot of women had a very simple philosophy. ”You have to sell a hoe a dream,” he said. That means, you tell a woman everything she wants to hear, even if it’s all a lie – you tell her that you want to marry her, have kids with her, that she’s the most beautiful woman in the world and that you don’t have eyes for anyone else. Then, she gives you s*x. Some women would rather hear a sweet lie than to face an ugly truth. Don’t be one of those women.
You can find Mr. Right if you look for him in the right way. But if you are susceptible to dating Mr. Wrong, he is probably waiting for you at the next party or bar. Find the man that’s right for you by doing right by yourself. Make him prove that he’s real.