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4 Ways That Men Play Women And They Don’t Even Know It

Dating & Relationships / October 14, 2015

Ladies, men are playing you and many of you don’t even know.  You have no clue and I can not continue to sit around and watch many of you walk around with your head in the clouds, while you look like a fool.

Let me be clear, all men are not trying to run game, however, there are some who are.  Here are a couple of things that men do that you need to be aware of, so you don’t end up with a wet ass and hurt feelings.

1) Using money to get you to think he’s a great catch- Women like men with money.  But money has nothing to do with his character and just because he has money, that doesn’t mean he’s going to give it to you.  Some men with money have a phone book full of women and are the biggest dogs in the world.  But they get you to join their roster because you are blinded by the dollar signs.  The same thing is true if he is handsome, famous or something else that gets you to think that he’s a wonderful man, even when he’s not.

2) Testing your sexual boundaries – Men try to test women to see what they can get away with.  If you offer him sex on the first date or with no strings attached, he’ll gladly take it.  So, don’t get mad when it seems that your celibate girlfriend always gets the man who you slept with after the three date rule.  You can have sex with men, but you shouldn’t think that giving it up easy and early is the way to keep him around.  It might be the way to lose him.

3) You believe everything he says If he tells you that the girl he’s cheating on is a horrible woman and that you are the exception to the rule, then you deserve whatever you get from him.  You’re not the exception to the rule, you are just the next person he’s given that story to.  You can trust your man, but make him earn your trust.  Don’t become that woman who believes everything a lying dog has to say.  It only makes you look silly to your friends.

4) Selling you a dream one man I know who gets around with a lot of women had a very simple philosophy.  ”You have to sell a hoe  a dream,” he said.  That means, you tell a woman everything she wants to hear, even if it’s all a lie – you tell her that you want to marry her, have kids with her, that she’s the most beautiful woman in the world and that you don’t have eyes for anyone else.  Then, she gives you s*x.  Some women would rather hear a sweet lie than to face an ugly truth.  Don’t be one of those women.

You can find Mr. Right if you look for him in the right way.  But if you are susceptible to dating Mr. Wrong, he is probably waiting for you at the next party or bar.  Find the man that’s right for you by doing right by yourself.  Make him prove that he’s real.


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on January 10, 2016

I know some ladies who need to read this. Very on point

on January 11, 2016

I don’t trust none of em. They can lie so what I have learned to do was lie right back to em lol play their game along with the ones who like to play.

on January 11, 2016

Dating is no joke these days. Women need to learn to trust their intuition because a lot of times we dismiss that feeling.

on January 12, 2016

I agree that some men do do all of these things. It is rough out here in the dating world.

on January 12, 2016

I know a few persons who have been victim of at least one of these “strategies”. It’s unfortunate that some men choose to operate like that.

    on January 16, 2016

    It is crazy that men operate like that but there are many women who refuse to see what is right in front of them

on January 12, 2016

In my less than smart days of my youth I totally fell for some of these. Thank God for maturity and clarity.

    on January 14, 2016

    I totally agree Mimi!!! Thank God for maturity, clarity and finding Mr. Right to save me from more Mr. Wrongs -_-

on January 13, 2016

Yeah sounds like a list gullible women need to be aware of! I have friends you can tell them all of these things but will tell me I am being a hater then cry to me about it later…honestly I think some women know they are being played but deep down praying this kind of guy would be different. Le sigh!

    on January 16, 2016

    OMG! The hater part gets me every time. Why would I hate on your drama? Chile!!!!

on January 13, 2016

This is very true and many women I know fall for these tricks. And wonder why it’s always the same. Sometimes men are very good at this but sometimes we have to be more aware as women and maintain our boundaries.

on January 13, 2016

I have some single friends that should read this. But by our age you would hope they know it already. Good stuff.

    on January 16, 2016

    You would be surprised. There are some old fools out there!

on January 15, 2016

I imagine lots of people have fallen for lies in love relationships at one time or another. And I also think most people know when they’re being lied to.

    on January 16, 2016

    I believe that too. The problem with a lot of women is that we don’t want to believe what we already know to be true.

on January 16, 2016

This is nothing but truth! People ned to open their eyes!

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