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How To Make Your Marriage Better

Dating & Relationships / March 25, 2015
There’s no lack of advice out there for people who want to improve their relationship. Far too often, though, that advice only works for the short term. If you really want to make a change in your relationship, consider the following tactics.
1. Instead of tolerance, try acceptance. It’s important to accept both yourself and your spouse. When you truly love each other’s similarities, and at the same time respect and appreciate each other’s differences, you can greatly improve your marriage. Accept who your spouse is. If there are deal breakers, however, it’s important to discuss them.
2. Support your spouse. In every relationship, there are joint interests and separate interests. If something’s important to your spouse, make it important to you, too. You don’t have to love everything they do, but it’s important that you listen to them when they talk about it and encourage them to continue to pursue their interests.
3. Be honest. When you don’t want to disappoint your spouse or you feel like they’ll judge your actions, it’s tempting to lie. However, honesty is more important than whatever it is you have to tell them. Even if they’ll be upset, you let them keep their dignity while you maintain your integrity if you tell the truth.
4. Maintain your individuality. Most spouses like to do things together, but you should also continue to do things on your own. As your relationship grows, your sense of individuality doesn’t have to shrink. In order to feel good about yourself, keep your own friends, financial independence, and interests.
5. Make time for play. Couples who laugh and have fun together tend to have better relationships. Watch a comedy, go to a stand-up show, head to an amusement park, play practical jokes on each other, etc.
6. Be affectionate. As infatuation wears off, so can affection. Both people have to make a continuous effort to stay affectionate. Hold hands, sit next to each other when watching TV, kiss each other when you wake up and before you go to bed, and do the things you did at the beginning of your relationship.
If you feel that you’ve tried everything, but your marriage isn’t improving, you may be considering a divorce. If so, it’s important to contact a professional, like the ones at Cordell & Cordell. Reviews of Cordell & Cordell show that they work tirelessly with the best interests of their clients in mind.



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Ty Knighten
Ty Knighten knows a thing or two about relationships and dating. A single mom from Calif., Ty decided to turn her experiences in love and relationships into a blog. Written with plenty of sass, her mission is to help women empower themselves to realize love, success and confidence through her articles. She writes about dating and relationships from the perspective of a single mom but adds insights that will help women and men as they maneuver through the confusing world of dating and relationships. You can reach her on Twitter @UHeardMeRight, on Facebook at The Sexy Single Mommy or connect with her on Google+ and Instagram at chocoty.

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