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Jill Scott has said exactly what I have been feeling for some time, “Why waste your time on a relationship that isn’t going anywhere?”
Well, she didn’t say those exact words but that is the just of it. The “With This Ring” star and musical maven, Jill Scott shared with ABC News Radio her six month rule to dating”
I’m older now so I see a little bit better than I did before. My longest relationships now are about nine months. Actually, now it’s grown to six months. There’s no need for me to waste my time or anybody else’s. I know by then. If you make it over the six month hump, you have done something. I must really like you.
YES, Ms. Scott! As a woman of a certain age, 41 to be exact, who has never been married but would like to be, I find it hard to waste time on relationships that I don’t see leading to marriage just for the sake of hanging out with someone because that is exactly what you are doing and all you are doing…hanging out! At this stage in my life, I don’t have time and years to give to someone while they decide what they want to do, or if they are over their ex. REALLY? Life is way too and patience is something that I just have a lot of. Six months is enough time to decide if you want to be with someone long-term or not.
Do you have any dating rules?
How long do you think it takes a person to know if they really want to be with someone?