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Ladies, Premature Ejaculation Should be Seen as a Compliment Suggests Tyrese

Entertainment & Celebrities / Sex / September 19, 2014

Ladies everywhere played this song loud and sang it even louder:

Ooooooh, I don’t want, I don’t need, I can’t stand no minute man
I don’t want no minute man
Ooooooh, here’s your chance be a man take my hand understand
I don’t want no minute man

Missy Elliot said exactly what was on the mind of women all over when she released, “One Minute Man” but singer and star of Fast & Furious 6, Tyrese says don’t get upset when your man let’s one go too soon in bed.  He explains his theory of the “One Minute Man” to Chelsea Handler on her show, Chelsea Lately:

Well see [women] got this thing about minute men. And so, when you’re a minute man, women get mad. But it’s actually a compliment because when you’re in bed for like 45 minutes and nothing is happening, you should get your life together.

I don’t know very many women who will feel “complimented” in this situation, especially after hearing, “Baby, just give me about 30 minutes” when you are hot and ready to enjoy the moment. Many of us debate if we should roll over, grab our vibrators and handle things ourselves while he “gets himself together.”  Sorry Boo but “Ain’t nobody got time for that!”

Ladies, how do you feel if your guy let’s one go quickly?

Do you give him some time to “get it together” or do you handle things yourself?

Men, do you agree with Tyrese that women should feel complimented if you have a premature ejaculation situation?

Would you be offended if your lady handled things herself?

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Ty Knighten knows a thing or two about relationships and dating. A single mom from Calif., Ty decided to turn her experiences in love and relationships into a blog. Written with plenty of sass, her mission is to help women empower themselves to realize love, success and confidence through her articles. She writes about dating and relationships from the perspective of a single mom but adds insights that will help women and men as they maneuver through the confusing world of dating and relationships. You can reach her on Twitter @UHeardMeRight, on Facebook at The Sexy Single Mommy or connect with her on Google+ and Instagram at chocoty.

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on June 28, 2013

I would have to disagree with Tyresse on this one. The problem with most “minute men” is that they do not put in enough work in foreplay to make sure their woman has had 2 or 3 orgasms before their 1 minutes show. Not only that but must women want more loving from a man than 1 minute. They may not want 45 minutes but 1 seems like a rip off.

It is not a bruise to my ego if a woman handles herself, but if I can’t go for more than 1 minute I should at least be able to help her lay back, relax and take matters into my own hands or other parts. 🙂

    on June 28, 2013

    Yes, it goes back to men not being selfish and satisfying her FIRST!!!

      on June 28, 2013

      A true gentleman understands Ladies First!

on June 28, 2013

Sometimes being a one minute man hits the spot for both partners – a hot and heavy lunch quickie, for example.

But not all the time, and certainly not if there isn’t time for BOTH partners to get revved up and cross the finish line. It would be like having fast food for every meal.

    on June 28, 2013

    LMAO!It would be horrible if it happened all the time! That would not be cool at all!

on June 28, 2013

Sure I take it as a compliment. I know it just be too good. heehee.

As long as he can bounce back, it’s all good.

Round 2!

    on June 28, 2013

    Round 2 is always better!

on June 29, 2013

I personally think it’s selfish if a man goes quickly. I’m OK with it happening every now and then because things happen…but all the time? Nope! Concentrate on something else, sir! Do anything that’ll keep you focused on satisfying your lady lol.

on July 1, 2013

I think it depends on the type of relationship (committed or non-committed) that the ‘one minute massage’ occurs in PLUS the frequency of these occurrences.

Also, if one day your man comes to soon, play it cool AND watch his reaction. If he’s upset about the ‘one minute massage’ he offered you, he’s not a selfish guy. On the flip side, if he acts like nothing is wrong and tries to slip in (no pun intended) a wack compliment of his short comings (I promise, no pun intended) upon YOU, he’s a selfish loser.

on July 3, 2013

I think the real compliment is when a man can stay hard, not come and pleasure you for as long as you want. He practices restraint to please his woman.

    on July 3, 2013

    I would have to agree with you on that one!!

on July 30, 2013

I agree with Shawn foreplay should be included.
Also it shouldn’t be an everyday thing where going at it is no more than 5 min. Both partners should be satisfied its only the right thing to do.

    on July 31, 2013

    Zee, you are right. People can not be selfish in bed!

on September 15, 2013

It happens, I think a guy just needs to make sure his woman gets a 2nd and 3rd round, It’s also up to the woman sometimes to get dude aroused again. It’s teamwork here. Women can throw fits about minute men, but so much of it is mental. Don’t put that pressure on dude. With sex things don’t move until we guys move. Our “tool” is essential for it all. That alone is always in the back of our head. For me, if it’s a new lady in my life sometimes my body has to get used to hers. Maybe we gotta find our chemistry and stride so it ain’t gon be picture perfect from the beginning all the time.

    on September 15, 2013

    Those are some words of wisdom right there! You should write that in a blog!

on October 3, 2014

Really, the so-called minute men are indeed very miserable, even afraid of intimate times! And that fear becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy time and time again. If you are a guy you’ll know. I know because I’ve been there. Every guy in such a challenge needs help from whoever and wherever they can get it. Do you know that some guys just ‘spill it’ by just a touch during foreplay.

I just mean to say many of the cases are medical issues and will never ‘do well’ until treated, medically. No amount of psychological adjustment or ‘hold-on training’ will do the job.

Of course, I agree there’s something they can do in the mean time to give their lady happy times – like extended foreplay, wearing special ‘rubber’ etc. But it can’t be like the real thing for him; it’s just a one sided fun.

on July 26, 2015

I believe that forplay definitely a part of a sexual relationship but now let’s not get it twisted there a lot of women who do not come in a reasonable amount of time it takes him quite a while sometimes to orgasm…’s a real turnoff for a man what is he to do get the book out to read it while he’s waiting for you to orgasm!

    on July 29, 2015

    LOL! I know it takes us a long time sometimes but hey, don’t grab that book. Keep working it! LOL!

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