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Top 5 Reasons Why You Should Ignore Your Ex

Dating & Relationships / Single Moms Talk / August 6, 2014

We have all been there before, the phone rings, we look at the caller id and it’s him…THE PAST….YOUR EX!  We quickly debate if we should answer the phone or send him to voicemail?  Girl, DON’T ANSWER THAT CALL!  Here are just the top 5 reasons why you should ignore your ex:

1.  HE AIN’T ABOUT S%!

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There is a reason why he is your past and you should leave him right there…IN THE PAST!  He may have cheated on you, with you or lied to you.  He forever had every excuse in the book as to why he didn’t answer your calls, return your texts or didn’t come over like her said he would.  He is a liar, a thief or unavailable…

HIT IGNORE!  DON’T ANSWER THAT PHONE, IGNORE YOUR EX AND SEND HIM TO VOICEMAIL.  

2.  AS GOOD AS THE SEX WAS, A VIBRATOR COMES WITH LESS DRAMA!

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So, you’ve been by yourself since you ended things and haven’t had any good loving in a long time.  You may be tempted to answer his phone call just so that he can scratch that itch, HOWEVER, is it really worth all the drama that comes along with it?

Girl, send the past to voicemail, ignore him and grab that drama free vibrator!

3.  HIS CONVERSATION HASN’T CHANGED

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The last time you answered your phone and listened to what he has to say, will be no different from this time.  He says all the things that he thinks you want to hear, “Baby, I miss you,” “I’ve really changed this time,” “No, I’m not messing with that chick I cheated on you with…”  Are you really thinking that he has something new to say?  Not!!

Nothing has changed, he’s just trying to see if he get you back for a replay of the last game he played with you! 

4.  YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY WILL THINK YOU’VE LOST YOUR DAMN MIND!

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Everyone kept trying to tell you that he was no good for you.  Your intuition told you the same thing, yet you thought he would change or that you could change him.  If you answer that phone and fall for his bullshit again, your friends and family will be ready to admit you the nearest mental hospital because you would have CLEARLY lost your mind.  Prevent yourself from playing the fool.  When your past calls, send him to voicemail!

5.  HE’S YOUR PAST FOR A REASON

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You both know the reason(s) that you aren’t together and the drama and BS that you went through.  Don’t subject yourself to that again.   Send his ass to voicemail and then block his number.  You know, better than anyone, that he has nothing new to say!

Did you find my top 5 reasons to ignore your ex helpful?

Are there any others reasons why you should ignore your ex? 

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Ty Knighten
Ty Knighten knows a thing or two about relationships and dating. A single mom from Calif., Ty decided to turn her experiences in love and relationships into a blog. Written with plenty of sass, her mission is to help women empower themselves to realize love, success and confidence through her articles. She writes about dating and relationships from the perspective of a single mom but adds insights that will help women and men as they maneuver through the confusing world of dating and relationships. You can reach her on Twitter @UHeardMeRight, on Facebook at The Sexy Single Mommy or connect with her on Google+ and Instagram at chocoty.




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6 Comments

on January 5, 2013

You are surely speaking the truth here!! Let’s move forwards and NOT backwards!! Yeesss to 2013!!

    on January 5, 2013

    Yes, indeed! “Don’t play the same record twice” as my mother would say!!!

on September 5, 2013

This is all so true. Love this!

    on September 5, 2013

    Thanks, Asia. I’m glad you enjoyed it!

on April 13, 2014

Hey, let’s give it to the repentant guy. He might have just discovered that he made a horrible error leaving and he may have mused over this for sometime. It takes quite a lot of courage to make that come-back call (if you were a guy you would appreciate this!).

I’m not saying that all come-back guys are honest but it’s not fair to generalize and cast all into the abyss. Some guys would be better second time around. Wouldn’t it be nice to try?

on April 2, 2016

Bold. 😉



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