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I have heard the complaint and have felt truly sorry for women who complain that their man won’t give them oral sex. To have had it and then to be with someone who you adore but who isn’t willing to satisfy you by giving you oral sex, has to suck big time. If you are one of those women who is wrecking their brain trying to figure out why he won’t go downtown, here are the top 5 reasons why men won’t give oral sex.
Although your man may have no problem having sex with you and your fuzzy forest, he, like most people, don’t like hair in their food. Have you ever thought that the fact that you can put your hair down there in pigtails is the reason why your man won’t give you oral sex? If you want your man to eat you for dessert, you need to either get rid of the afro or cut it low. He shouldn’t need a tooth pick after the fact.
Let’s face it ladies, they make feminine hygiene products for a reason…USE THEM! Don’t spend the day at work or running around with the kids and expect him to be spontaneous and give you oral sex. Take a shower or bathe first and then initiate it. You can’t expect your man to want to put his face into not so fresh surroundings. If you want to get your man to give you oral sex…freshen that thang up! Now if you have an odor that won’t go away, no matter what you do, then you shouldn’t be worried about him giving you oral sex but instead making a bee line to see your gynecologist!
There are many men who either just don’t like it, have cultural reasons or just don’t believe in putting their tongue in the same place where he sticks his penis or where you pee from. No matter what case you bring to him about all the reasons why he SHOULD give you oral sex, he’s not buying it…PERIOD! If your man is that adamant about not going downtown, you shouldn’t push it. For me it may just be a deal breaker, I mean, who really wants to go through life without the joy of receiving oral sex…NOT ME! However, please remember that I’m still breaking free of that superficial demon…you may not want to walk away because of that!
Yes, ladies…you read that right! He may not be giving you oral sex because he doesn’t know how AND he may be too embarrassed to tell you, thus he just refuses to do it or in a past situation, he tried and got pushed out-of-the-way with a foot on his forehead. If your man is adamant about it but just sort of low-key refuses, maybe you can have a conversation with him and discuss your desires, wants and needs sexually and let him tell you his. During that time, bring up the topic of why he has reservations about going downtown. If you are the patient type, you can watch a how to video or you can you can walk him through it. Good luck with that!
The word on the street is “fair exchange is no robbery.” There are men who are not down for giving unless they are also receiving oral sex. Let’s be real, it’s not always about “69 and I owe you one” but if you want your man to go downtown, you have to be willing to do a little sucki sucki yourself. Sometimes there ain’t no getting around that!
Are there any other reasons that would make not want to give a woman oral sex?
If your mate refused to give you oral sex, how would you respond?
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