page contents

12 Reasons Why Women Fake It In Bed

Dating & Relationships / Sex / June 27, 2014

Here are 12 reasons why women  fake it in bed, instead of truly experiencing an orgasm. Sometimes, it really isn’t a guy’s fault. But then again, almost always, it definitely is!

#1 You’re not good at foreplay

A guy may take a few seconds to get a stiffy in his pants. But a girl is like a pot of water on a stove. She takes time to warm up, but stays hot for a long time afterwards! If you don’t arouse her enough with foreplay, either by stimulating her down there using your fingers or with the way you caress her body, chances are, she may not be aroused enough to experience a real orgasm.

#2 You don’t know what she wants in bed

This is the case with many guys. They just think they know everything about a girl’s body, and everything about what turns a girl on. But really, all girls are different and every girl has her own expectations in bed. Take cues from her, watch how she reacts to the things you do, and learn from it. Don’t be arrogant and believe you know what works for her better than she knows herself!

#3 You suck in bed

Who can blame you here, really? You’re just not good enough, and you’re probably a lost cause. And since she loves you so much, your girl may just fake it each time just to make you feel better about yourself while she dreams and fantasizes about a guy who can give her the orgasm she craves for someday!

#4 You blame yourself

If you’re a guy, it’s pretty understandable that you look at an orgasm as a prize. To most guys, a girl orgasming under them is a sign of victory. Do you persistently question your woman each time she doesn’t experience an orgasm? And do you blame yourself for being bad in bed? If you do, then your girl may fake it when she’s unable to experience an orgasm just to stop you from blaming yourself. ]

#5 You blame her

Do you ever accuse your girlfriend or wife when she doesn’t experience the big bang in bed? Do you snap at her or angrily say something like “why don’t you f**kin’ tell me what turns you on in bed then?!!!”

#6 You get annoyed

12 Reasons Why Women Fake It In Bed

You may not tell it to her face, but your dismayed expression may give away your annoyance when she doesn’t experience an orgasm. And each time you appear upset, you may just make her feel bad about it, which would just lead to her faking it each time she doesn’t feel like experiencing it.

Continue Reading at Love

Photo Credits:,,,

Tags: ,

SSM Staff

Previous Post

Is an Open Relationship for You?

Next Post

How To Be Better In Your Next Relationship

You might also like

0 Comment

Let's Talk! I want to know what you think?

More Story

Is an Open Relationship for You?

Lately I have been giving some thought to the idea of dating. And, the more I think about it the more I realize that the dating...

June 26, 2014