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Here are 12 reasons why women fake it in bed, instead of truly experiencing an orgasm. Sometimes, it really isn’t a guy’s fault. But then again, almost always, it definitely is!
A guy may take a few seconds to get a stiffy in his pants. But a girl is like a pot of water on a stove. She takes time to warm up, but stays hot for a long time afterwards! If you don’t arouse her enough with foreplay, either by stimulating her down there using your fingers or with the way you caress her body, chances are, she may not be aroused enough to experience a real orgasm.
This is the case with many guys. They just think they know everything about a girl’s body, and everything about what turns a girl on. But really, all girls are different and every girl has her own expectations in bed. Take cues from her, watch how she reacts to the things you do, and learn from it. Don’t be arrogant and believe you know what works for her better than she knows herself!
Who can blame you here, really? You’re just not good enough, and you’re probably a lost cause. And since she loves you so much, your girl may just fake it each time just to make you feel better about yourself while she dreams and fantasizes about a guy who can give her the orgasm she craves for someday!
If you’re a guy, it’s pretty understandable that you look at an orgasm as a prize. To most guys, a girl orgasming under them is a sign of victory. Do you persistently question your woman each time she doesn’t experience an orgasm? And do you blame yourself for being bad in bed? If you do, then your girl may fake it when she’s unable to experience an orgasm just to stop you from blaming yourself. ]
Do you ever accuse your girlfriend or wife when she doesn’t experience the big bang in bed? Do you snap at her or angrily say something like “why don’t you f**kin’ tell me what turns you on in bed then?!!!”
You may not tell it to her face, but your dismayed expression may give away your annoyance when she doesn’t experience an orgasm. And each time you appear upset, you may just make her feel bad about it, which would just lead to her faking it each time she doesn’t feel like experiencing it.
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