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An Open Letter To All The “Playas” And Man Wh**es: You’ve Had Your Share Of Women, But Wait ‘Til You Meet Karma

Dating & Relationships / May 8, 2014

From Madame Noire

To All of the heartbreakers out there,

I’ve always wondered how some of you can be so cold. How you can have a wife here, a mistress there, and 30 side chicks spread everywhere, yet tell someone that you only want to be with them. Does sleep come easy knowing that your promiscuous ways and playboy antics crush hearts and bruise self-esteem, causing pain and bitterness for women who love you more than you love yourselves?

I bet it never occurred to you that you’re dogging another man’s daughter; some other man’s sister, niece, cousin or mother. But when it happens to a woman who’s close to you, you’re ready to bring out the bats and load up your guns. But five minutes later it’s back to Lisa, Pam and Nicky. Using them up and living without a care

ssm goes aroundYou may not realize it now, but a lot of your indiscretions are being tallied up on the board of life. And once you meet Karma, you’re sure to feel the true wrath of a woman—just like with anything else we do in life, your behavior could come back to you. I’d bet that it will. Maybe when you’re ready to settle down, the woman who vows to love and honor you will milk you for everything that you have and leave you feeling the heartache and pain that you’ve caused so many over the course of your “playa” years. Perhaps you’ll find that the love of your life is as loose as a goose, then the tears that leaked from the eyes of your ex will pool from yours.

Or maybe you’ll get the ultimate payback. A dose of karma in the form of something men treasure the most—a beloved daughter. As fathers, nothing warms the heart more than to lay eyes on a beautiful little girl that they’ve helped to create. Fathers—good ones anyway—pride themselves on protecting their daughters and guarding their sacredness. So what will you do if your little princess grows into the wild and rowdy teen who worries you with promiscuity? Your heart will surely ache when she sprouts into a young woman who experiences the same pain that you once made other women endure. Will you arm yourself with baseball bats and boxing gloves knowing that the young man who broke her heart is a reflection of you? Can you really stomach that the mentality you carry will in turn be the same temperament that hurts something you (will) value most in life? Nas said it best when he proclaimed: “The coolest playas and foulest heartbreakers in the world/God gets us back, he makes us have precious little girls.”

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Ty Knighten knows a thing or two about relationships and dating. A single mom from Calif., Ty decided to turn her experiences in love and relationships into a blog. Written with plenty of sass, her mission is to help women empower themselves to realize love, success and confidence through her articles. She writes about dating and relationships from the perspective of a single mom but adds insights that will help women and men as they maneuver through the confusing world of dating and relationships. You can reach her on Twitter @UHeardMeRight, on Facebook at The Sexy Single Mommy or connect with her on Google+ and Instagram at chocoty.

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on July 25, 2013

This post is so true. What I think is missing is most of the men are cheating with women. So my question is where is the sisterhood that women have for other women. Each man they cheat with has a wife that is a mother, sister, daughter, etc. Each side piece may have a daughter that will get her heart broken one day because of a cheater like their mother.

Remember Karma is a B and it does not discriminate for gender. Just like it will get that male playa, it will also get that female that he is playing with if she knows about the other woman.

on May 8, 2014

The heartbreakers, PUA, and players are so self absorbed they rarely see women as more than a means to an end; toys for personal pleasure and amusement. I have a difficult time believing in Karma, but that doesn’t mean I’m not hopeful in its existence. I love the perspective you offer and the reality behind the lives of the women they exploit. She’s not just a piece of a$$, she’s a mother, sister, or daughter!

    on May 9, 2014

    AMEN!!!! You hit the nail on the head!

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