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Is there an answer as to why guys like having a side piece? The truth is there are a few reasons as to why. These reasons aren’t relegated to “all men are dogs” either. I’m pretty sure we’d all agree that isn’t the case. Allow me today to chronicle a few reasons as to why some men love having a woman on the side. As a disclaimer bear in mind that I’m not advocating this behavior, I am simply bringing forth truth. There is nothing more or less here … scout’s honor.
To start off rather simply, some men lack self-control. There are many factors that could lend itself as to why that is. Some guys just lack that discipline to make something work with one person. Maybe you could presuppose that the guy in question fears something. In any event how he copes with that emotion is simply through not confronting it.
There is a good chance that you’re an amazing woman and girlfriend. A man loves and appreciates that. There might also be the possibility that you’re a prude. As for me personally, I’m not committing to a prude. I can’t speak for other men, but there might be some fellas out there who have gotten stuck with a great woman. That great woman just might not fulfill them as much physically as they’d like. This woman is also not willing to be a bit more daring between the sheets. In that event a guy may keep women around that feed that sexual appetite… quite possibly literally as well.
As a man, throughout my life I have been told to play the field, you know, have a side piece or two. These remarks were made to me by older women. These words came from many Aunts in my family. This reasoning here really pertains to younger men, think the majority of the 20s. These older ladies felt men needed to get things out of their system and figure out the woman they really wanted. Trial and error seemed to be the weapon of choice to solve this problem.
Lastly, there are men who see dating and sex as sport. Some men get a rush out of meeting a new woman and adding her to his extensive list of women of which he’s entered. Liken this dynamic to sort of like getting into a gang. It’s not simple to get out of this behavior or thought process. It is fun to be with different women. I can say that because I spent a lot of time being that way. I just happened to be extremely single when I did all of these things. Most men simply feel it’s in their nature to behave the way that they are. Take this Eddie Murphy clip from “Raw” for example.
He may over generalize a bit here, but many men have this mentality that they have to cheat. In closing, understand a couple of things. You need to make sure you communicate your ass off with your guy. Know that what someone wants to do they will do regardless of any parameters involved. And don’t hold back sexually with your partner if you all are monogamous. Be daring, be fun, be spontaneous. Be a man’s fantasy.
Could this be 100% foolproof? Not at all, but I’m all about high positive probability. You might just benefit from that.
Why do you all think men need a side piece?
Have you been a side piece?
Let’s talk about it, I am very happy to be here! (Channeling Eddie Murphy in Coming To America).
These are my words and I make no apologies.
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