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Just Tell the Damn Truth!

Dating & Relationships / He Said / March 9, 2014

I have heard people talk about why relationships fail, and men this, and women that, but to be honest, all of us are fucked up because we are humans. Women cheat, men cheat, and it’s due to the fact that some people can’t commit, are not happy, have lust problems, and/or just some damn freaks. That’s it plain and simple! Women are bitter and often times they have problems trusting men. Sometimes they are just no damn good, and sometimes they just pick the bad boy and they get more than what they asked for. Men often chose the wrong type of woman, can’t be with just one woman, or just plain out thinks with his little head.

The point that I am getting at is… Just tell the truth, no matter what the issue may be…
If you meet a guy and he is nice and sweet and you think that he is cool to go out with but not tough enough for you, ladies tell his ass that. Don’t force yourself into liking him because he is a nice guy… tell his ass the TRUTH! If you are a ho and you like to sleep with different men, don’t make the guy think that you are just some kind of a angel because you are scared of him judging you, you just tell him that you want to screw his brains out and call him later. If you have been married for x amount of time and you are not happy, tell your man, and then tell him why. Don’t start acting out with all of the damn attitude, tell him the TRUTH!
Just Tell the Damn Truth!
Fella’s, you know that you are not ready for a relationship, but you tell a girl that you are to get into them jeans. Well that’s BULLSHIT!  You need to tell her that you are not looking for anything but a good time and let her decide if she is with it or not. If you are married and you are not satisfied and think that you want to go out and try something different, don’t go out there screwing around on your woman, you tell her about those thoughts that you are having and y’all try to work it out. Don’t tell a woman a bunch of sweet nothings and you do not mean it, be a damn man and say what you mean and mean what you say.
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Life is not that complicated people…KEEP IT REAL! You know how the rappers say, but I mean, really, be real. Don’t lead people on or make them think that you are a certain way and you are not. If you are not happy with something then you say that shit! If you can’t deal with something, say that shit! If you are thinking about cheating, hell say something. It might just mean that your relationship is lacking in an area that can be fixed. If you liked to be licked or sucked in a certain place, you better say something verses going out and getting licked and sucked somewhere else.
We humans, make shit so very hard when it does not have to be. Life ain’t hard at all, just tell the damn TRUTH about whats going on with you. I bet my life that things will change for the better, even if it means leaving that person. None of us deserved to go to heaven, but GOD will let us in due to his mercy. He knows that we are messed up, so we have to realize that about ourselves. If your mate has messed up and been honest with you and told you why, don’t be so quick to throw them away, just find out whats wrong.
Stop Bullshitting and tell the TRUTH!
Just Tell the Damn Truth!


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Kataurus Braswell
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on April 8, 2013

Yeeessss! Keep it REAL!!!

on April 8, 2013

I think some people like just for the thrill of it.

    on April 9, 2013

    Some people couldn’t tell the truth if it saved their lives

on April 9, 2013

You are totally right about keeping it real and honest. But, people have to find a way to do that without running themselves down. A lot of us find it hard to know the difference between being honest and being so negative the guy is just going to run a mile.

    on April 9, 2013

    That is so true, Jennie and no matter how honest we are, there is going to be someone who can not tell the truth to save their lives!

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