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It seems that having “on a break babies” is the new trend among celebrities lately. First Dwayne Wade confirmed that he fathered a little boy with “a longtime friend” while he and Gabrielle Union were on a break. Now Ludacris is also confirming that he, too, fathered a child while on a break from his long time girlfriend, Eudoxie Agnan. So my question is, when does “taking a break” equal having babies with random chicks? Better yet, when does “taking break” mean having SEX with random chicks?
First let me state for the record, people have been having babies while on “a break” for years and years. Some of you may even be a “take a break baby.” LOL! However, how is it that while on a break, men manage to knock chicks up? If you were going to have sex with someone else while on a break, wouldn’t common sense tell you to wrap that shit up and use a condom? I mean, REALLY? Is that they way that we’re doing things nowadays and I would give five *ucks if we were on a break or not, if you got someone else pregnant…there is NO get back in that one.
And who goes on “breaks” anyway? Either we are going to be together or we aren’t. There is no, let’s take a break for a while and see if we really want to be together? Now, if a woman got pregnant while on a break, you know damn well a man would be pissed and there would be no get back.
Some people may say, “Gabrielle has invested so much time in their relationship and they weren’t technically together.” Yes, both of those statements may be true but how do you give a pass for that shit? As far as we know, Gabrielle and Eudoxie haven’t got pregnant by their mates, so how is it cool that they get some other chicks pregnant and when exactly did they let the ladies know that they fathered children by someone else? Was it after the chick told them, once the baby was here or right before it was leaked to the media? Besides the hurt they must have felt that their man got another woman pregnant but how embarrassing is that? The entire situation is excuse me….fucked up and I wouldn’t give a damn if he finally proposed after all the bullshit he has done but who is to say that he won’t do that same shit once you’re married? I for one wouldn’t bet that he would be faithful.
Now let’s take a look at the type of woman who would stay after their man fathered a child outside of their relationship. I get the whole thing about time invested but does investing time mean stay and be a fool? Is it the money that makes a woman stay with a man who continually hurts her or is it because of “appearances” that they stay? Do you accept that it happened when you weren’t together, respect the fact that he told you and move on with your lives together or do you wonder at what point did he realize that he wanted to be back with you…after he had sex with the other chick and before the baby or after he told you about it and you accepted him and the new baby? Help me figure this out ya”ll…
What Do You Think?
Would you give a man/woman another chance after they had a baby during a “break?”
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