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Ludacris and Dwayne Wade are just two of the many simple-minded, dick-driven men that use “taking a relationship break” as an excuse to bed down anyone they can find. Worse that they managed to impregnate their bedfellows during the process. If you’re going to have “break sex” at least have protected “break sex.”
Taking a break, when done the right way, can bring clarity to your relationship and life. Here are some tips to taking a successful break (without conceiving a love child)
During the break you’ll likely be doing a lot of thinking and soul searching. Have periodic check ins with your partner to ensure that you’re on the same page. Be upfront with any feelings you may have about wanting to just scrap the relationship and break up, or wanting to end the break early and get back together for good. Honesty is indeed the best policy in this case.
Not all breaks end with a surprise baby popping up 9 months after. You can use a well-planned break to enhance your relationship or end a relationship guiltlessly. A realistic approach, mutual respect for the situation and each other, as well as a little pre-planning is all it takes.
Good luck to you!
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