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“Why Won’t He Give Me the Title?” Listen Up Ladies, Series

Dating & Relationships / He Said / January 20, 2014

Ladies, many of you have reached out to me and stated that you want the male perspective on dating and relationships.  I have made sure to include more men in our Twitter chats but when Jay from Up4 Discussion came to me with the idea of doing this series, I jumped at the idea because it was just what you ladies had been asking for!

“Listen Up, Ladies” is a weekly series (every Monday), in which Jay will be answering the questions that you have submitted and responding to the varies scenarios that you have asked for the male perspective on.  To have your questions or scenarios featured, you can either leave them in a comment or email them to

Without further ado, I present “Listen Up, Ladies” Episode #1 “Why Won’t He Give Me The Title?”

What did you think?

Would you add anything to what Jay said?

Why do some men want to “act” like your man but not give you the title? 

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Ty Knighten
Ty Knighten knows a thing or two about relationships and dating. A single mom from Calif., Ty decided to turn her experiences in love and relationships into a blog. Written with plenty of sass, her mission is to help women empower themselves to realize love, success and confidence through her articles. She writes about dating and relationships from the perspective of a single mom but adds insights that will help women and men as they maneuver through the confusing world of dating and relationships. You can reach her on Twitter @UHeardMeRight, on Facebook at The Sexy Single Mommy or connect with her on Google+ and Instagram at chocoty.

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on July 8, 2013

looking forward to jay’s perspective

    on July 8, 2013

    Thanks darlene. I hope you enjoy this series.

on July 8, 2013

I feel that he gives excellent advice! I agree with everything he said. I especially like how he said before doing anything, sit down and have a conversation. I meet so many people, men and women, who aren’t willing to actually sit and talk FIRST. They assume and assumptions are never the right way to go. Again, loved the video. Looking forward to this series!

    on July 8, 2013

    Awww thank you so much for the kind words FabEllis.

    I still don’t understand why having a conversation is so difficult to do with someone we love. I know some people are fearful about opening up and sharing their feelings, but at the expense of their relationship?! That’s the part that baffles me. You hit the nail on the head with the assumptions. I learned from reading the book The Four Agreements to never make assumptions, whether that’s in a relationship or not. Assumptions keep us trapped within our minds, rather than allowing us to face reality and truth.

    I’m curious, why do you think some people have a hard time communicating with their partners?

    Thank you again for watching and I hope you’ll enjoy what Ty and I have in store for this series.

on July 8, 2013

Great video Jay full of wonderful information. What many women don’t realize is that it is Game Over as soon as they finish the first call. Too many women do not date with a purpose. They do not say that they are looking for a serious relationship early on. So many guys will just string it along and if the woman never has the “conversation” with them then they are fine. Ladies, if you are looking for a serious relationship, stop telling guys you are just dating casually. It will not help you get the title that Jay is talking about. You deserve more, but you will only get it if you make it clear up front that you will not settle for less than a title.

    on July 8, 2013

    Thanks a lot for watching and sharing your insight Shawn.

    This line, “You deserve more, but you will only get it if you make it clear up front that you will not settle for less than a title.”, says it all. I agree that women are dating without a purpose, like you stated. It’s now time for women to be more aware of what they want and what they are receiving. If the two don’t line up then it may be time for a change.

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