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Why The “Sexy” In The Sexy Single Mommy?

From the Editor / December 31, 2013
I am often asked, “Why did you have to put “sexy” as part of the title of your blog?” “Why couldn’t you just be the single mommy?”  My answer to this question is that although I am a single mom, I am also sexy.  It is who I am and why deny it?
When you hear the word sexy, most people think of the definition meaning, “sexually attractive or exciting and/or sexually aroused.”  Maybe that’s why I am asked why I included it in the title of my blog.  For me, sexy is all a state of mind.  It is how you carry yourself every day.  Being sexy is about being confident in who you are and the skin that you are in.  There is no room for self-doubt when being sexy.
When you are a mom, you deal with so many things that sometimes we “lose ourselves” in the mix.  We become so involved in the lives of our families that we adopt the “mommy jeans”  and ponytails as part of our daily look.  As moms we have to remember to keep it “sexy” at all times.  We have to take the extra time in the morning to throw on a little mascara, lip gloss and run a comb through our hair.
When you are single, I think that you have to put forth a little more effort than that of our married counterparts.  Who cares what they look like, they have someone to go home to?  We, on the other hand are looking for someone to eventually wife us and go home to.  I mean, let’s be honest here, although I am single, I would like to be in a relationship and someone’s wife one day.  Thus, us single ladies have to go through some thangs to make sure that we are presentable all the time.  My grandmother told me a long time ago, “a woman should always make sure that she looks presentable because you never know who you may meet.” I have always taken this to heart.  I think that it is ridiculous for women to go to the store in their pajamas and slippers or with rollers and a scarf on their head.  That’s not cute!  What if you run into a handsome man looking like that?  No Bueno! Ladies, we have to step it up!

Now being sexy does not mean dressy like a slut.  You can be sexy with looking like you are on your way to or from the strip club.  You can be well dressed, covered up and still be sexy.  You can be sexy in a tank top and maxi skirt, remember its all about your attitude and confidence.  Putting a smile on your face is sexy.  Your conversation can be sexy, without even talking about sex.

why the "sexy" in the sexy single mommy?
What it all boils down to is this, I am more than the title, “The Sexy Single Mommy.”  There are layers upon layers that make up who I am.  Being sexy and single is just part of that.  Having a smile that can light up a room is another part.  I believe that I am the all day, baby and there isn’t a woman alive that is better than me.  Hell, if you don’t believe in you, who will?  Being sexy is about having that type of confidence and I have to say, I gotta a WHOLE lot of that!!

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Ty Knighten
Ty Knighten knows a thing or two about relationships and dating. A single mom from Calif., Ty decided to turn her experiences in love and relationships into a blog. Written with plenty of sass, her mission is to help women empower themselves to realize love, success and confidence through her articles. She writes about dating and relationships from the perspective of a single mom but adds insights that will help women and men as they maneuver through the confusing world of dating and relationships. You can reach her on Twitter @UHeardMeRight, on Facebook at The Sexy Single Mommy or connect with her on Google+ and Instagram at chocoty.

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on July 19, 2012

Most people understood what Sexy don't need tp explain yourself to everybody..because your BLOG may not be for everybody…You called your Blog Single SEXY Mom..and like you said..that's who you are…bottomlne..nothing less..nothing more. BOOM!

on July 19, 2012

LOL! Right

on July 21, 2012

What the hell is wrong with a mom being or feeling sexy? I guess it's just the thing now a days for women to question and bash one another but I say, rock on, mama!!! Be confident and beautiful and sexy and funny and love it:)

on July 21, 2012

Thanks, Nicole! I TOTALLY agree!

on July 22, 2012

LOL @ Darlin. Please don;t embarrass the kids!

on July 22, 2012

Thats right Ty….Thanks for the post I do believe in being me and always looking nice i need a lil help on the sexy still but im working on becauser I'm simply sexy….Trying to amp it up sinvce the weight loss… LoL!

on December 12, 2012

I have no problem with your blog name, its good marketing, after all (“Sex sells”:) I’ve enjoyed reading some of your blogs and look forward to more…Congrats on the business, many blessings , “Sexy single Mommy”:) 🙂 #1Love, Lorna

    on December 13, 2012

    Thanks, Lorna. I appreciate you and please continue to stop by

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