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They say that “women are emotional creatures” and that 90% of how a woman acts is based on her emotions. I am going to agree with both of those statements and I would like to add for the record, that women need to knock that shit off! Too many of you are walking around with your hearts on your sleeves, crying, “feeling down,” making the wrong moves based on emotions and telling your friends all your business. All that needs to stop…TODAY!
Women are playing themselves because they are so emotional. You spend too much time over thinking situations, trying to figure out why men act the way they do, what they are going to do next, how come he hasn’t called you, etc. Man, if y’all don’t knock it off! You make yourselves look pathetic and who wants to be around someone like that? Ummm…NO ONE! Women get it together! You have to start thinking before speaking! As soon as something goes wrong, your mouths start popping off and necks start rolling. Take a moment and evaluate the situation.
Stop to think if you can benefit from it before you start popping off and the situation reaches a point of no return.
I’m not telling you anything that I don’t know about first hand. I will be the first one to tell you that if my mouth was a sword, I would be writing this from behind bars, doing life because of the things that I have said to men in anger. I have been there and done that and allowed my mouth to make some really good men run the other way. Had I held my tongue, removed myself for a moment and took the time to think about the situation, things may have turned out differently. They say the game is to be sold not told but I am going to give you a free lesson and take this opportunity to school some of you on a few things.
Stop getting mad at your man and running to your friends telling them all your business.
Women let me be clear, there is nothing wrong with “girl talk” but I don’t care if it’s your best friend or not, keep some things to yourself! Everybody does not need to know everything about your life. Women need to learn to shut the hell up sometimes! You talk to damn much! Besides, some of you start talking about what your man did and didn’t do and you sound like a damn idiot for putting up with his bullshit, so for the sake of not looking like a complete fool, keep somethings to yourself. Here is a trick to live by. When you are alone, look in the mirror and tell yourself what you want to tell your friend. If you sound like a dumb ass to yourself, chances are you will sound like a dumb ass to your friend. Now that you have said it aloud, leave it there and move on! You have to know that what you tell one “friend” will be repeated to your other friends and they will all be calling you a “dumb ass” behind your back. Trust me!
When will women learn NOT to tell their friends about their man’s performance in the bedroom?
I don’t even know why I have to talk about this one but apparently I do because there are still some women out there, running and telling their friends about how their men are in bed. Hello, how old are you? Don’t you know that besides being emotional, women are nosy as hell, thus, when you tell them about how good your man is, you have some shady chicks who want to know personally, how good he is. Don’t be that chick who is crying later because her man slept with her “friend.”
Conversations about sex with your man are off-limits.
Some things need to be sacred and let that be one of them!
I hope that I have not only enlightened some of you but also put you up on game. Having emotions is cool and all but damn, you don’t have to go overboard with it. Get a grip! Put your big girl panties on and be a woman.
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