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Does He REALLY Like It BARE Down There?

Sex / September 20, 2013

Waxing all the hair down there: It’s more polarizing than you’d think.

Welcome to “What Guys Really Think…”, our column devoted to polling real men about what’s going on inside their noggins when women speak, act or even dress in various ways.

Special thanks to Carrie Bradshaw and the women of Sex and the City for bringing Brazilians to the forefront of our imaginations — and keeping them there. Ever since the show’s debut and the multi-million dollar success of the feature films, more and more women have dared to bare it all — or are, at the very least, thinking about keeping the feminine landscape trimmed and tight. Opting for sans hair down there has thoroughly split the sexes straight down the middle. (And the sexual innuendo of the article is at its peak, mind you.)

While women find the hairless hack to be refreshing, freeing and easier to maintain (yes, all things real women have said), how do dudes feel about it? Are they excited, confused — or seriously contemplating coming back for seconds?

Does He REALLY Like It BARE Down There?

They Think It’s Clean & Sexy:
While Tom, 29, loves the openness of the area when it’s hassle-free. “I admit that at first I wasn’t into it but then I started dating a woman who got Brazilians every four weeks. We had sex regularly — and I really liked the cleanliness factor. I could go down on her as often as I wanted and was never met with excuses. I also felt like, as a woman, she felt sexier around me. She was kinkier, too. It was like the Brazilian brought on all new territory for us to explore.”

“I think a Brazilian should be seasonal — necessary in the summer and maybe not as necessary in the other seasons, but still suggested. I think that the cleaner a woman is, the better the sex is,” says Cole, 27. “I’m not worrying about getting stray hairs in my mouth — which can be a total turn-off — or when the last time she showered was.”

“When I’m going down there, I don’t want no hair,” says Ryan, 27, to the tune of his own little jingle. “It’s a huge turn-on when I’m out with a woman and find out later that she’s totally bare down there. I know tons of dudes probably say that it’s sexy — but it really is. It shows me that she’s into my pleasure as much as she is her own.”

And James, 26, agrees that it doesn’t get much better than a woman with no “road blocks” in the bedroom. “I’m a fan of going hairless — and if that’s the most hairless you can get, then I definitely support a woman who wants a clean cut.”

Phil, 29, said that when you’re in a relationship with a woman a Brazilian isn’t exactly a requirement, but a Hollywood wax every now and again goes a long way in the bedroom. “I’m easy to please, I’m not looking for anything too crazy but it’s to me, a Brazilian is the best you can get from a woman. And when you’re in a relationship it’s not exactly a necessity although it’s definitely an added treat when you’ve been with someone and they’re willing to spice it up.”

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Ty Knighten knows a thing or two about relationships and dating. A single mom from Calif., Ty decided to turn her experiences in love and relationships into a blog. Written with plenty of sass, her mission is to help women empower themselves to realize love, success and confidence through her articles. She writes about dating and relationships from the perspective of a single mom but adds insights that will help women and men as they maneuver through the confusing world of dating and relationships. You can reach her on Twitter @UHeardMeRight, on Facebook at The Sexy Single Mommy or connect with her on Google+ and Instagram at chocoty.

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on September 20, 2013


on September 20, 2013

I always love it bare, it’s more incentive to really go to work down there. A little hair is fine and has nothing to do with hygiene. But I love the look of a bare joint. I think I sound too excited, ta ta lol

    on September 20, 2013

    Ummmm, yes Pops! You do!!

on September 21, 2013

Well my husband is from the islands, and he doesn´t like ANYTHING bare lol. Though I would prefer to keep it neat and low cut…but, gotta please that man lol..

    on September 21, 2013

    LMAO!! Well alrighty then!!

on September 22, 2013

Definitely bare is better! I’ll gladly stay there all day if it’s bare.

    on September 22, 2013

    All day? Now that’s a mighty long time

on September 22, 2013

Could never be too long sexy mommy! Lol

    on September 22, 2013

    LMAO!!! There comes a point when you can’t take anymore!

on October 3, 2013

#TeamBare all the way. My ex said it was a bit of a turn-off, reminded him of an under-age girl…I think it was just the age gap (15 years) worry speaking. Me, I like it smooth. if nothing else, feeling it myself is enough. Plus, the lack of bumps after a wax is soooo worth the pain!

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