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Date Clothes…Is There Such a Thing?

Dating & Relationships / Health, Beauty & Fashion / April 10, 2013

Luckily, I am in a relationship and I say that lightly because all you have to do is turn on the TV and see all of the celebrity relationships that fail. Or answer a phone call from a close friend that is sobbing about a relationship that is in shambles. Be that as that may, I was observing a couple that appeared to be on a first date near me and it made me start thinking.

I would love to be in the mind of men if only for a few minutes to decipher their first thoughts when they are on a first date with a woman. I would want to know what men think the moment they see their dates. Would a man think ‘oh those high-heeled shoes mmm I would like to _______ her in those? Or does he think ‘hmm those shoes are kind of stuffy she might be boring’? Or if a woman’s skirt shows too much leg where do his thoughts go?

Dressing for a date is almost as tough as dressing for an interview in my opinion. When you go on an interview you want to present yourself well and part of that is how you look. Dressing the part for a date should follow the same line of thought. Do you want to land the position of wifey or are you just looking for a little something for the moment? black couple

I have been in my closet and my friend’s closet looking and tossing clothes about for the perfect date outfit. Women have so much on their plates at times and dating can sometimes can a hassle. So the next time you or your girl has a date make it fun. Have a date night with your friends and pick out outfits that you may possibly wear on a date. Let you friends YAY or NAY the outfit. Throw on something crazy just to make sure they are paying attention. Have fun with it!

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Kim Turner
Kim Turner is the creator of Shoecloszet, a women’s shoe guide blog for the regular girl that loves a great shoe. She provides affordable and designer shoe options, celebrity shoes and shoe news.

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on April 10, 2013

Well ladies I would say err on the side of caution. Try not to wear anything too low (clevage), too high (skirt), or too tight (everything else). I would suggest something fun and casual. Unless you are just looking for sex, I promise you that is probably what is on the guy’s mind. Just try to have fun and leave the overly sexy stuff for the relationship down the road.

on April 10, 2013

Hi Shawn,

That’s great advice! Women need to hear that from a man.Thanks for your reply.

    on April 11, 2013


    You are very welcomed. I love my beautiful sisters and believe they have allowed some things to go on far too long. Like my mama said, “Don’t advertise the merchandise if its not for sell.” If you are not trying to sell sex, then dont look like a ……well you know what I mean. 😉

on May 15, 2013

ugh the thought of dressing for dating makes me exhausted. I wouldn’t know where to begin!

    on May 15, 2013

    Hi Amy,

    If you are actively dating maybe you can take my advice above and make a girlfriend’s night out of picking an outfit. Take advantage of their company and their honesty but most importantly have fun!

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