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The Black Woman That Every Woman Needs To Be

He Said / April 15, 2013

Nearly every woman desires to find companionship and get married someday. In most cases, the woman wants everything to be perfect. She desires the perfect man, the perfect relationship, the perfect wedding and the perfect marriage. What about being ‘the perfect wife’? How many women add that to their list of perfects? How many women assume that they are or will be ‘the perfect wife’? Even better question, how many women assume they will be ‘the perfect wife’ and queen to their husband without having to work at?

Now I know it may be a stretch to say that women want or expect everything to be perfect. I’ll even admit that no man should expect his woman to be ‘the perfect wife’. If you ask me, there is no such thing as ‘the perfect wife’, but there is a particular type of woman who nearly every man desires. I say nearly because there are a handful of men who don’t appreciate and will reject the type of treasure and queen that I’m referring to.

Ladies, as a man, I humbly ask that you refrain from trying to be ‘the perfect wife’ and instead focus on being the type of woman who nearly EVERY man desires. It may take time, work and sacrifice, but it’s not impossible and will truly be worth it…for you and your husband. If you would like to discover the type of black woman who every woman needs to be and every man wants please watch the video below.

Thank you taking the time out to watch the video. I truly hope you enjoyed it and that it will have a positive impact in your life. I also would like to say that this message could be applied to ALL women, not just black women. I addressed this message specifically to black women because they have a strong desire for love and to love, but are often led astray. It is my prayer that this message can assist  with leading them in the right direction and ultimately improve the quality of Black Love. If you found this message beneficial please share it with someone you know. Thank you.

Stay Blessed!


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Jay King
Jay Mayo is a man on GOD'S mission to help you exercise your Right to R.EA.L. Love, embrace your singleness and prepare you to develop healthy relationships that will last! If you’re interested, come join the R.E.A.L. Love community and receive a free gift at righttoreallove Also, feel free to contact Jay on Twitter @iamJayMayo.

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on April 15, 2013

Excellent video! I definitely found this inspiring and on point. I love the quote he mentioned from the movie. I may not have it, but I’m going to get it! Do trust.

    on April 15, 2013

    Hey FabEllis! Thank you so much for reading the post and watching the video. It means a lot to me that you enjoyed it. Yes, that quote is so key. I feel like there are a handful of women who think they are without flaws and another handful who know they have flaws, but pretend like they don’t. It’s time for women to know that ‘perfection’ isn’t want a man is looking for. A man is looking for a woman who isn’t afraid of her imperfections, who is willing to share them with her man and who is motivated to grow and become better together. That’s the key.

    on April 15, 2013

    I am so glad you enjoyed this. I feel the same way, girl! I will get it!!!

on April 15, 2013

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on April 15, 2013

Great video my brother. I do have to say that I think there are more Black women like Rachel Robinson then there are Black men like Jackie Robinson. Most women aren’t even asking brothers to be the first to do anyting. They simply want love, honor and respect. These qualites seem to be beyond many brothers these days. If we had more brothers like Jackie, we would probably see more women like Rachel.

on April 15, 2013

Thank you so much for watching Shawn. I can’t deny the accuracy of your point at all. I totally agree that a good man and a good woman go hand in hand. The reason the scales have been so off balance is because oftentimes a good man or a good woman ends doesn’t end up with their counter part. Instead they end up with someone who doesn’t cherish or respect them. This ultimately results in wasted time and energy, along with a side order of heartache in many cases.

It’s my prayer that this video will allow good men to distinguish what a good woman is. That way they can avoid women who don’t fit such a mold. The same goes for women. Perhaps that can be a future video.

Thanks again for sharing your insight brother. I greatly appreciate it.

on April 27, 2013

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