It amazes me how naive women can be when choosing to procreate. Let’s take for instance the Ciara/Future situation. Ciara is a famed R&B singer and Future is her baby father/ex fiancé. Before Ciara came around Future had already shown the world who he was. Future was definitely a rolling stone. He had already impregnated, cheated on, and left three other women to raise their children as single mothers. But somehow, Ciara thought it would be a good idea to sign up to be a part of his harem.
Maybe when the R&B singer stepped in the picture she figured she’d be different, as many women who end up in these bad situations do. After all, her goodies were incomparable to any woman who he may have been with prior to her. She knew when to keep them in the jar and when to let them out. The women before her didn’t have her talent, beauty, or money. How could any man pass on that? She was his upgrade; at least in her mind.
That thought process is at the crux of the issue. See, that’s woman logic. Not man logic. And especially not grown boy logic. Do not be mistaken, Future, and any man like him who goes around spreading his seed indiscriminately, is a grown ass boy. A lil boy trapped in the body of a grown man. One whose id has never fully developed. One who can not and will not appreciate any good woman. But for some reason, Ciara thought she’d be the one who would tame him.