I do not remember where I even got the idea from to make a list of all the things I want in my mate. In my mid 20s the list was long…I still have it somewhere, memory keeper that I am. My list was long and it shows how young, romantic, inexperienced, dreamy and damn clueless I was about life and well…men. I was then and still am somewhat naive when it comes to men.
At 20 something, I was a single mom with little relationshipor even life experience. My list then had these traits listed: God-fearing, matched in education, funny, family oriented, handsome, clean and neat finger nails, no children, never been married, good credit, honest and loves kids.
After being married for 15 years and now going through a divorce, my list looks more like this: Loyal.
Do all of the other things I wanted from a mate in my 20s still matter? Absolutely. Do these lists mean I won’t be hurt again? Absolutely not. But as recently as today, I set out to update that list and still it began and ended with one word-loyalty.
Pascha is fairly new blogger for her personal blog theposhblog.com. She mostly shares about high end and luxury products for beauty and fashion junkies with the occasional snippet of her life.
Mom to 3 active children in the greater Atlanta area. She is most active on Instagram, but you can find her also on Twitter, FaceBook, Tsu and Google+ by searching The Posh Blog.