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Catch Me Elsewhere
I am listening to Chico Debarge’s song, “Love Still Good” and really zoning into the lyrics. It made me think of all the times that people, including myself have went back to their ex, if nothing more than to find out if “the love was still good.” I know that I am not the only one that has been at the intersection of You Should Never Go Back Avenue and But Damn, the Love was Real Good Boulevard. The question is, “Why do we play the same record more than once?”
Do we go back because:
Many people go back for all of those reasons, plus some. You may not have been able to get along and make the relationship work but sex had never been an issue between the two of you, so from time to time, you go back. If this is or has ever been your situation, I ain’t mad at you. Truth be told, I have been on But Damn, the Love was Real Good Boulevard more times than I should have been but that’s another blog for another day, however, sex with your ex can be all kinds of good for the following reasons:
However, please keep in mind that most people, especially women, have a hard time separating sex and emotions, so you most def do not want to go down to the boulevard if:
There are some things that you MUST discuss before you decide to get your freak on with your ex and the main one being to establish exactly what the situation is and the perimeters for instance:
I realize that sex with your ex is not for everyone and many will say that it is a bad idea, however the reality is that there are people who are either having sex with their ex or considering it. If you are stuck at the “intersection,” consider the points that I have mentioned and if you decide to go to the boulevard…enjoy!
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